[Threads Of Fantasy]

When I have sex I like to ask the girl what is pleasing her, and what she likes to have done to her, or what if I am doing feels good etc. Sometimes I feel right asking the girl but there's also times where I feel like I might come off as unsure of myself, or like I might not know what I am doing. I don't want to do something she isn't enjoying though. I also do follow the body language and read the non-verbal communication though, of course.



So does it bother a women if a guy is asking what feels good during sex? Is it a good or bad thing if I ask?