[Brandye]

Both approximate age and approximate gender would be helpful. You force us to make assumptions. I am assuming you are a teen aged woman.

We recommend that all women have a gyn exam by age sixteen and before becoming sexually active. If you have not had a complete gyn exam, it is time to do so and discuss this with your doctor.

It is not apparent to me why three fingers were used. There are no nerve endings in the vagina so all the sensation is external. Even if looking for the G-Spot or some such, three fingers would not be used. Some women like to see how many they can admit and some men think it sport to get as many as possible in there. Between two women, what is the point?

You are lucky to have found someone trusting and kind and understanding. Perhaps the two of you need to do some learning about the female body.