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Advice?
Since quite recently, I have a girlfriend, who I absolutely adore, and we have gotten intimate with each other already. Last week, she fingered me - not roughly, though with three fingers entering - and it hurt like hell. For several days it continued to ache, which then diminished to a slight discomfort. It bothers me that it hurts, because it isn't supposed to. I have a history of sexual abuse, and maybe this could be the cause of it. Can anyone help me? Any advice?
I want to be close to her, because I trust her, and she's kind and understanding and will only go as far as I allow her to. She knows of my past and pays extra mind to how I am feeling while we play around, and mentally I am ready to allow her to finger me and such, but physically something's up.
I would greatly appreciate advice, if you have any at all to give me.
Cuboid
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