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Old 11-06-2009, 09:35 AM
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Thank you for the kind words. We are here to help and to hopefully make life easier for those following those of us who have gone before, so to speak.

Another thought is to plan your lovemaking so that intercourse (regardless of the position used) does not begin unless and until he is on the brink of an orgasm. A lot of fellas nowadays believe that the way to a climax is from lots and Lots and LOTS of stroking--wrong. This is the purpose of all the making out and then foreplay that precedes intercourse.

Because of the likelihood that the fit within the vagina with regard to the natural bend of his penis may not provide the friction where it is most needed, waiting until he is about to climax yet can still maintain enough control in order to move around and get into position is hedging your bet quite a bit.

So, if your guy believes lots of stroking is the path to take for him to climax, he needs to use a different approach and spend no less than half an hour building your arousal, plus his from all that you contribute during your make out session and the foreplay that follows, first and foremost, regardless of the position used.

Stroking should not last longer than about ten minutes. When it does, many women report becoming SORE, bored, and tired. This does not mean that the two of you cannot enjoy extended love making that lasts an hour or more, just do it in stages with breaks during intercourse to do other things before continuing on.

I am happy to learn that you have found our site helpful. I encourage the two of you to read the many articles listed in the Index. Knowledge is empowering. There is much background information on all this, plus how-to information. Be sure to read the articles by EvilEvilKitten.

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