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Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten
WOW - you have gotten yourself one sadly wrought gf.
She wants sex but doesn't deisre it, is comfortable and attracted to you but no sex.
Excuse me? I take it you're blaming this on a low libido and you might be right but it sounds 'weasally' to me.
Remember: no Sir Galahad and you're not being exclusive but you're also not rubbing her nse in it either.
Scared or not - the gf has an issue she's not facing and fixing.
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I fall into the habit of being the white knight a little too much.
What do you mean by I'm not being exclusive? You suggest I pursue other women while in a relationship with this girl? I kind of broke a personal rule of getting the sex running smoothly before entering an exclusive relationship. I did this because she just seemed more innocent and cautious. I figured a bit of time and effort and we'd be golden.
There's definitely an issue, whatever it is. It's been so many different things over the past few months. It's also really irritating that she won't even make out with me anymore. I need to stop talking about this because it's just pissing me off.
Anyways, as I said we're going to resolve it or I'll move on. She's booking an appointment with her doctor today and seeing her counsellor on monday. We talked about it alot and she understands how I feel. I just feel shitty leaving a girl I'm attached to feeling guilty and ashamed of something she can't help.