Hi all,
I came across this site a few days ago, and have been checking out alot of it. It contains alot of good information and interesting material
Before I get too far into it, a bit about me. I'm in my early 30's, married, just getting our lives started over again after a short *pause*. I've been with the same woman for several years, and have been having sex with her for almost the same amount of time. However, as time has gone on, I find there is less sex between us now.
I'm by no means above average in sex...I'm between 6.5 and 7 inches in length, normal girth, and I've been able to last for a decent amount of time...most times. Other times the sessions have been as short as 4-5 minutes (quite ashamed of that too). I'm hoping to make improvements in areas that can be improved, for her sake and my own.
Since marriage my wife and I have stopped using condoms, but she remains on birth control pills. We're not trying to start a family right now, but if it happens so be it. I'm more against it than she is...during sex she's insisted I stay inside her when I cum, but I haven't done that yet. I pull out before I reach that point.
Long winded...sorry...my point is, over the last year I've noticed my stamina during sex has decreased. I think this has affected my sexual relationship with my wife as she is not as overly interested in sex with me nowadays. We have had plently of opportunity to enjoy each other but mostly my advances are snubbed or we just don't bother at all (for example, out of a month, we'll have sex maybe once). This has left me primarily unsatisfied (her as well I'm sure) and I've turned to alternate sexual stimuli to make up for it.
I'm hoping that I can learn some new things here to revive the sexlife we previously had, and make it better. Comments and discussion are welcome. I'm willing to provide additional details to those interested in discussion.
Glad to be part of the crowd, looking forward to future conversations.