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Old 11-03-2009, 08:39 PM
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Originally Posted by mike99 View Post
I know i'm quoting a post from early in the thread....but I had to.




You've asked a few girls out that have a b-cup?

Do you have high standards? Sorry but i'm not gonna go through 49 freakin pages.

You should lower your standards stat.

Look on the bright side.......atleast your tall.
Most of the girls who I have asked out have small breast.

These are my standards for you to know. They are not in any particular order, and are equally important.

1. She must be fit. I won't date a fat girl. I keep myself fit, and have respect for my body. I won't let myself go so I refuse date a girl who has let herself go.

2. She must be clean. I won't date someone who is dirty nor always look like she just woke up.

3. I would like a girl to be sweet, kind, loving, smart, ect.

4. We need good communication. She needs to be someone who I can understand, and for her to understand me.

5. She must be a Christian. I want someone with the same beliefs as I do.

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Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten View Post
You really need to go and review ALL of my posts before you accuse me of lying. Stop reading my words through whatever filter you have in your mind and read what was actually typed. Lying is telling a deliberate falsehood. I do not lie. It is not worth my time and effort to lie. If you read what is there - I did not say you were, I said I doubted that what you displayed was not. There is a subtle difference.

Frankly, you're not ugly but your suit is.

And you look like you're 12 years old.

THAT's your problem - you look like someone's kid brother.

Which probably explains your defensive attitude towards us and our advice including your continued confusion between respect and civility.

There is no magic formula, no magic words, and nothing that will improve your situation - you look like a pre-teen guy. Until you've grown into yourself, and have stopped harping about respect/disrespect, you're not going to be successful with women. Need I say this again? Seems I must. What you want is NOT as important as what women want. You do not bait tigers using zucchini. Women do not go out with "kid brothers".

Women lie to save your pride and to keep themselves from getting beaten up. Plain and simple. Yes, to your face they will like you as a person and think you're great, here they're not lying, but when it comes to sex with you - not a chance! - so yes, then they'll lie and say they have to wash their hair or something equally innane or they'll toss out a 'throw-away line' like "you're ugly" in the hopes that ugliness, about which you can do nothing, would be more acceptable to your pride than "hey, kid, you're 12".

Stop acting like this happens only to you - it doesn't. EVERY PERSON will go, is going, and/or has gone through the same crucible - rejection. You either learn to deal with it effectively or you don't. Those who don't live very unhappy lives seeing insults where none were said or meant. Capice?
I've been reading the advice given to me at first. EEK is right. I don't look my age. I am 20 years old, and I look like a pre-teen. Women don't want a man who looks like a kid.

As I said earlier every other area in my life is just fine. I don't have any major problems to worry about. I am drama free. I just have to enjoy what I have for now. Hopefully I will start looking like my age. I dress like someone my age and generation should dress like so now I need the aging process to kick in. I really look so much like I did in elementary school it is not even funny.

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