[dancingdoc2]

So I'm confused because your sentence structure and thought patterns do not agree. So I think I understand what you are saying.

I believe you need to think more of yourself, set higher standards, and, demand more of your friends. You should go out and cultivate better friendships.

> he's a couple of years younger than me.

Regardless of age, girls mature earlier and faster than boys. Boys are typically a couple of years behind girls of the same age, so in this case he could quite possibly be four years less developed than you.

> ( yeah I chat a lot) every once in a blue moon.

So just curious, what definition of "blue moon" are you using? What are you saying; that you chat a lot only on the day of a blue moon, or, chat a lot every so often?