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This seems to be a problem nowadays, i think that the main cause a woman won`t give head is the antourage, what that person has heard in time maybe from a early age about giving head(that it`s degrading) or comments like "oh I would never do that" and they form an opinion that is wrong about it and they just don`t have the strenght to come back on track.
What I say is nobody and I repeat nobody if they think giving head is wrong should do it becouse of guilt, pressure or becouse they think they owe something, they should not do it becouse it`s about one`s integrity, you are what you are, an unique person and you should not bend but instead try to hear out as many oppinions as possible and try to work on the problem, try to make it work for you but if you can`t solve the problem then it is my oppinion it should be left alone becouse I think we are all different in what we think and feel and it is right to be this way.
I am a male and I myself have been thought by the antourage that giving oral sex is disgusting and degrading and for some time I thought so but after some time I came to think with my own head and don`t know how but the idea of pleasing a woman in that way pleasing the person you love has become very arousing.
I asked my loved one about giving head(and it wasan`t easy for me) and she accepted but she did not embrace the idea, she felt disgusted by it but felt obbligated to give something in return, to please as she would be pleased and I tell you if I accepted something like that I could not look myself in the mirror anymore, I could not accept something that is not equaly pleasurable for both of us, that`s my idea of a couple.
You can agree or you can disagree, you can comment and I will be pleased to answer any and all questions
This is my opinion
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