[dancingdoc2]

Originally Posted by ghost lover

OK here it is. My current GF likes getting me jealous at the bar she'll flirt with other guys until I'm pissed and ready fight!

Truth be told, you're getting your own self jealous. Your girlfriend may be stirring up your emotions, however, only you can decide how to respond. If you do not want to become mad, upset, then don't.

Then we usually go home and have great sex! Now the sex is awesome but the build up sucks, my friends are telling me she is clearly cheating on me, and my GF and her friends tell me that it turns her on to see me being protective. The truth is I don't know what to think.

Unless and until you are married there can be no cheating, per se. You are dating and hopefully not being exclusive. (For more on this please read the article on exclusivity listed in the Index.)

If you want more adult behavior from her then do not play into her little game. If you do not react, she will quickly stop because she will no longer be getting a pay off from you.

Is anyone going or has anyone gone through this sort of thing?

Of course, you are describing typical teenage behavior, whether you are a teen or not.