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Old 10-30-2009, 11:49 PM
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Originally Posted by RATED-RKOFRANKLIN View Post
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The type of clothes I wear.
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I am thinking about moving on from this area of my life because my efforts are just meaningless. Unlike what most people believe for their own entertainment. I do the things people have advised me in this topic. The advise they give me does not work. I am not saying it is bad advise. It just does not help me in any type of way. I am not arrogant person. I don't expect the perfect woman because I am not perfect. I can not dance. I don't have much muscle. I have never attracted any type of woman.

I believe it is my physical appearance and my ears. I have no problem meeting new girls. I have met some new girls on campus and I am friends with them. I make them laugh and just have fun. However I can only be a friend. There are other girls who will not give me the time of day. Not one girl in my life have shown any interest in dating me. I have never had a girl who flirted with me before. If I do try to flirt they avoid me, walk away, or call me ugly shit.
Having now seen your pictures, I don't think your physique is what repels women. You seem to be lean and with everything in the right place, so women should probably find you attractive. Well, yes, the ears do protrude to the sides and are unusual in that sense. I honestly don't know to what extent that would be a dealbreaker for most women - I just don't know. If you truly believe that your ears are your biggest obstacle, it might be worth considering an operation to change that. Yes, you have mentioned that you are unwilling to change for women and that they should like you as you are, but from what you are saying they don't. I am sure a woman will eventually like you for your personality and such, but in order to get to that stage, she probably has to find you physically attractive at least initially. Again, I don't know that your ears are behind this, but since you seem to be pretty convinced that is the case, you have a fairly easy workaround...