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I recommend that the two of you read this article, first:
HELP! S/He is more EXPERIENCED! To which I say:
Next, go to the Index and begin reading all of the articles under the heading of making out. Go to the library or your bookseller and get the book Brandye recommends, also. The two of you can read all of the information separately or together, after which discuss what you have learned. Knowledge is empowering.