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Old 10-29-2009, 02:53 AM
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Need advice on a first timer

I'm exhausted, its late, but I want to get this down while its fresh in my mind. I've just had a lovely 4 hour conversation with a guy I've been trying to get to know, and its brought up more questions than its answered.
I'm 27, he is 24. I've had 4 partners and 1 long term relationship and misc fooling around with probably 10 more. Experienced, basically. He has had nothing. One casual girlfriend when he was in high school, but they never got very far.
He doesn't seem like his self esteem or confidence is lacking, or if it is he fakes it extremely well. He is brilliant, fascinating, attractive, and I could easily fall head over hells in love with him, if he would let me. But hes very hard to read and hard to get to know. God I'm rambling.

Point of question. He is a virgin, I am not. I have NEVER been the more experienced, and I tend to be submissive and easily led and dominated in the bedroom. Obviously in this case there will need to be a role reversal for me. How do I handle this? And what are some things I can do to teach him or basically be a good first lover? (Campsite Rule) I'm not terribly patient and I'm not a good teacher in other areas of my life, and I don't want to be cruel by accident

Amanda
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