[sania]

I have some views regarding sex. I feel sex should always be within your marriage or your-to-be husband or wife. Otherwise one can never be happy.

Although there is nothing wrong in doing it but once it starts there is no end to it. Perhaps this are my views or beliefs which i have developed over time.

Like we have a couple friend with whom we share ourselves physically mfm. Because we wanted to find something new. But eventually, we never found anything new. Its always the same. Then you again start finding something new. I started fantacisng on mfmm, mfmmmmm , going to swingers club and so on. I also put a poll on that issue to see peoples reaction. But now i feel mf ( or say mfm if you cant resist ) is okay but enjoy it efficiently. Volume is not important. Qualityof sex is more important in sex. Have quality sex.

Its like a dog trying to catch its tail. Or like an old wine in new bottle.

What I believe is, try to find what is new in what you have. Or try to find what you have not yet found in your partner.

Like in some poll, someone asked good boy and bad boy. But there is no defination of good boy. What you like is good. So the trick is in convinsing your partner in what you like. Then your partner will be good.

Like yesterday itt1130 gave an idea of lying naked when your husband enters home. Brilliant. There are lot of new things like that which can be tried. One can keep on exploring sexuality in your self and your partner. Changing partner will never solve it.

One can share ones sexuality here, so that new couples can get new ideas about it.

I know many people will not be with me. Because its human nature to be attracted to opposite sex and also not to be satisfied with what is with him/her.

Like @ 70% males are not satisfied with oral sex performance of their females. But if they change partners there is 70 % chance of finding similar girl. Instead, one can try to understand situation and possibly convince ones partner to explore it in better way. Like if one of this 70 % male goes to swinger club or prostitute and enjoys what he missed with his wife. He will again land in same situation once he comes home.

This were my personal views. And I wished to talk it out. I know there will be lot of strong reactions to it. But it has to be.