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Okay, let's take this step by step.
An orgasm is the flexing of the pc msucle and the firing of associated nerves. Thus it is a physical thing. Women, being more complex creatures, do have an emotional component to it however so you have to get a good attitude and a good fantasy going.
Now then: I recommend getting a small vibe - the one with the flat head. This is not meant for insertion, this is only for clitoral stimulation. Wet the head and apply to your clitoris. Focus your mind on your fantasy and RELAX. Breathe deeply and slowly. Let the feeelings roll on through you and keep going until you feel the pc muscle flex - it is unmistakable.
Back off, continue breathing, relax some more and then try it again.
Remember, there's no rush and this isn't the Olympics - no one's keeping score. Take your time to train your brain.
BTW there's nothing wrong with you. Since women do not need to have orgasms to have children, the system hasn't been hardwired in by evolution. You have the hardware but the software has not been activated, as it were. That you have to do yourself.
All in the absence of a medical condition.
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