[EvilEvilKitten]

Since both you and he are very bad at setting boundaries, this plan of yours is not a terribly good idea. Also both of you are 'pleasers' who cannot say No. All sounds very sweet until you understand that being a Pleaser with boundary issues leads to Doormat. Not so good.

You must maintain separate beds - if you want to cuddle while sleeping get a stuffed plush teddy bear and leave the man alone.

Focus upon your schooling. Get it done and get on with your life.