Well yeah . . . . you can't do that.
You would need to meet like minded guys the same way gay guys do. I mean, I'm not recommending cruise lines or Craigslist but if you're looking for a friends with benefits situation put a profile on some gay and bi-sexual dating sites. Believe me, there's plenty of guys out there just looking for sex and not necessarily a relationship. Also gay bars. But as with any "hook up" scenario PROCEED WITH CAUTION, get to know the guy a little bit (don't just drive over to his place after a ten minute conversation) and be VERY HONEST about what you're after. Is there risk? Sure, but you can take a large percentage of the danger out of the situation by using common sense and thinking first with your big head and not the little one.
