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Originally Posted by DVDBear
Why? Your girlfriend seems cool with it. If you truly want BOTH just keep the honesty and communication open with her, but if she starts to get uncomfortable about it then you need to make some decisions.
And not to sound like a broken record . . . . . . always use protection.
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Yes she is cool with it as you say but I feel alot of times I HAVE to have it...don't know if that's desire or fantasy. It doesn't affect us but it's so hard to find someone you can play with that is safe that isn't clingy or uncomfortable to be around.
I think I have a issue stemming from childhood and alot of denial issues with it. Some know about me but everyone else doesn't it. It's not like I am a different person, I just like BOTH sexual experiences.
I just don't know what to do with myself now to make ME happy....I want both and to be comfy with that but I know I can't in the publics eyes. I mean imagine If I walked up to a guy and said "hey man your an attractive man that looks like your packin something I'd like to play with".........i'd get punched in the face. So how?