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Piffle "Full Disclosure" when it really has nothing to do with him. Now if she had something that directly affected him, as in illness or disease, then she should tell him. But past bf's? Nope! That's no one's business but her own.
The thing is, being an adult - an independent adult capable and comfortable with making decisions and facing up to obligations REQUIRES that you learn what is your business and what isn't, then acting accordingly.
Along with that goes respecting the adulthood of your partner. You do not meddle in what isn't your business just as your partner doesn't meddle in what isn't his/her business. If he/she wishes to tell, fine; if not, also fine.
Frankly, wanting to know who is contacting your partner smacks of insecurity and mistrust more than anything else. If you go on asking/demanding to know what is none of your business - you'll lose whatever trust you've earned and so ends the relationship.
Nothing else matters but what goes on between you two.
If you two act like adults, then all should be well.
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