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I think routine gets a bad rep... I like routine in my sex life. Both my hubsand and I know that certain times during the week are set aside for sex, and neither of us will mess with those times unless we have a very good reason, which don't include headaches or just not feeling like it.
Also I'm a big believer in quid pro quo, both partners aren't neccessarily enjoy sex every time you have it. My husband hates shagging me when I've been drinking, I typically go out with mates every other week, and when I come back I'm typically quited drunk and gagging for a shag and expect my husand to do the business. Which he does and which he absolutly hates.
On the flip side I hate sex in the morning (expecially at stupid O' clock early) but once a week I wake up to being prepped to be pumped by hubby, it's actually my ambition to learn to sleep through it.
If at times the sex sounds unsexy there is loads of it and we are both completely satisfied sexually. I think this routine rather than doing any one thing is what keeps us sexually meshed.
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