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Originally Posted by KittenLover

Thank you all I have read both the program and body worship (please excuse the spelling if I make any mistakes).

In addition to these articles, I would like to recommend that you browse thru the Index and read the many articles listed in it.

I am glad I decided to do stuff with the guy I'm currently sexually active with, because he knows how to take his time and not rush into things, even if we really don't have the time. My past lovers really didn't know how to, and when I tried they got irritated (they need to visit this site badly lemmie tell you).

It sounds to me like you have a fella that understands the way of Eros.

I think I might also have a little bit of an issue with my current guy with body worship, or well just getting him compleatly naked... he has a nice bady (I like it any way) but he is soo self concious. I'm hopeing to help him over come this by not being self concious myself. If I'm confertable with him maybe he'll be confertable with me... but who knows...

Time is on your side. Take things very slowly and progressively. There is no need to get naked all at once; instead, unbutton buttons, unzip zippers, open shirts all before removing the article. The idea is to get him all worked up and highly aroused with all the necking and petting activities, first and foremost. As your make out session progresses, you can then go from opening shirts and flys to removing a sock and then another, or, from opening a shirt to removing it, and so on and on. The same goes for you and your clothing. What you are doing is building arousal, building excitement and anticipation. The more highly aroused your guy becomes the easier it will be to get your skin on him (skin to skin contact).

I was just truly concerned about the whole foreskin thing... I think I'll be fine if I go slow and gental at first and ask him how he likes it. I just didn't want to ask him the question "what do I do".

You can ask him this and that and gather information and one of the articles discusses the importance of communication and feedback. In this situation, I think I would recommend not asking and using "Implied Consent", instead. Please read the article that has the section on this (Refer to the Index).

I hope this is of help. Got questions?