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OK, communication is a good thing. But now that you've done that, back the hell off and follow her lead. She's confused and scared, and pressure from you is only going to make matters worse.
Give up this idea that as the big strong man you have to set minimum standards of sexual behavior from her. Because quite frankly it's bull shit, and if you don't drop it, you'll big strong man yourself right out of a girlfriend.
And oh by the way, she won't see you as strong, she'll see you as weak. She'll see you as caring more about sex than about her, and bid you good riddance. She'll decide that if you were truly strong of character, you'd give up the reins on reaching the sexual part of the timetable because you'd care more about her than about sex.
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