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Originally Posted by lnt1103
OK so what's your answer to the question, OP? It's not necessary to answer that in writing here, I mean it rhetorically, but I want you to think about it.
If you want her more than the sex, I would back off as EEK suggests, but not for the purpose of playing a game on her as you seem to interpret it. For the purpose of backing off. You're pushing too hard and she's digging in.
How do you 'play it' when she asks what's wrong? You don't 'play' anything. I've heard it said that if you always tell the truth, you don't have to remember what you said. So you don't 'play it'. This is not a game, it's communication. You answer honestly. You tell her that you decided to back off and take your cue from her, because she obviously isn't ready.
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You're completely ass backwards. I want her to be my girlfriend, and part of that role is filling the basic need for sex. This is basic stuff. Dropping it completely is not being completely honest on my part, it's being a weak and spineless man. I've lived with this mindset before - it doesn't work.