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Old 10-15-2009, 08:19 PM
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How to pass the test is to NOT make any advances of any kind to her but you accept all advances made by her to you.

The point of the exercise is to gently make her 'step up' either to discuss her policies and views about sex or to actually have sex. She should come clean.

This is not a 'game'. This is real life and how a man behaves. She has said NO effectively several times while enjoying some petting, well, a girl cannot play with fire without getting burnt. She should either talk or walk. But she will do neither unless you quietly make it clear that the ball is in her court. If anyone's playing a game here, it is her. She should be TALKING frankly about what's going on in her mind and not just fobbing you off with paltry excuses.

You do this by calming down and backing off while never being absent.

BTW if she fails to 'step up' - you should 'step off' - that is: say goodbye. Not because of no sex but because no honest communication.
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