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Originally Posted by Brandye
Over a cuppa or whatever when physical contact is not being made, discuss the situation. Tell her your side and listen to hers. Then decide. I have waited longer than four months and I have on the first date.
If she is testing (likely), then move on. Consider, however, that she may still be a virgin and rather threatened by the whole thing. We all lie about sex.
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I do bring it up, but she just fires out a random reason. What am I supposed to do beyond that? If she says she's just not ready or comfortable yet then I have no real position to take other than to accept it.
Why move on if she's testing me? I think it's good that she safeguards herself, I'm just trying to pass this test and don't really know what I need to do here.