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Yes, enthusiasm IS key for certain, but as we age, a few other ingredients are also necessary. Energy and endurance become increasingly important--that's where exercise and weight control come into play. Creativity and communication, while always important, take on even more central roles in lovemaking after many decades together. Trust, while it should ALWAYS have been present, assumes a greater role as well, because as we age and mature as couples, we often think of (or SHOULD be thinking of...!) new games and sex play to enjoy together, and trust is so necessary for introducing new practices, such as bondage, role-play, dress-up, etc. In addition to the above things we need, we need to abandon all pretense of inhibition, up-tightness, guilt and other blocks to enjoying one's physical and sexual universe.
Michael
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