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What she's doing is TESTING you to find out the answer to one question: do you want her all of her or do you just want sex?
The test is necesary because if she just asked you, you'd lie and proclaim undying devotion, you'd get the sex, and then you'd lose interest - end of relationship.
What YOU should do is stop. Just stop making any advances at all. No asking. No petting. No kissing. NOTHING.
I don't suggest you two discuss the issue because she's throwing up all of these nonsense excuses. She's doing that because she's not willing to discuss the issue.
But you should seriously consider why you're 'dating' a girl who uses sex as a tool/weapon and who has such insecurities that she thinks dating = marriage.
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