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Originally Posted by Copperateme

Hey guys, Im new here as you can see . I need to get something off my chest because I would feel abnormally awkward if I talked to my brothers or Dad about this.

This is understood and natural. There is no reason to think that they would not be uncomfortable, either; furthermore, in all liklihood, you do not know what you do not know, so while talking to parents or another adult is always recommended, it is also why there are libraries with books--and, this resource. You stand a very good chance of learning more and expanding your horizons by using all of these.

...I've had 2 really good relationships but we never really got anywhere. When I actually had balls, I wanted to actually lose my virginity to this girl.

You have no balls? How can you lose your virginity? (Sorry, I couldn't resist!) Please understand that having intercourse means different things for boys than for girls. While you may have strong feelings for a girl, more than likely you are more interested in orgasms than in using the love making process as an outward demonstration of your love. This being typical, do not expect that she has the same drive or interest in losing hers or in havng intercourse.

As I liked her alot and I told her, She was too nervous to do so. Thats another story for another time though.

Ahh, yes, yet all so typical, also.

And my second girlfriend was kind of shy and we really never even fucking kissed. I like relationships alot more then just..tap it and leave. Sooo, Still being a virgin and a senior in High school is pretty uncomfortable.

It is a good thing to learn that you are more into relationships than sex for sex sake. The latter is OK as long as both parties agree to this beforehand.

Im 16 turning 17 on halloween And im too much of a bitch to get pussy or even do smaller things like blowjobs and such, I would have no problem going down on a girl. But going down on me is nerve racking. The only problem is that im afraid I will bust my load as soon as i get in or she wraps her lips around.

"Bitch?" Please clarify this particular usage.
Yes, climaxing before intending to or desiring too is natural. Not to worry, there are techniques you can learn to manage this tendency. There is an article listed in the Index.

I cant stand the thought of her laughing at me or telling her friends I bust my nut too quickly. As ive been told that it happens to everyone. Its kind of harsh for me because basically almost every girl had sex before.

If any girl laughs or gossips, then she is not only insensitive, she is also the wrong person for you. Please read the article on "experience".

And noticing on other forums how people SAY they have a 10-12 inch penis makes me more uncomfortable because Im basically rolling at 7 inches erected. So Im not sure if thats too small for a girl and if so. That would even lower my self esteem to go out for girls. So Please give me advice, and be honest.

This is such a common concern that an article addressing this topic is the very first one in the Index! At 10-12 inches, ya just gotta know that your chain is being yanked. Have you ever seen one this size around the shower room?

Whenever i think of this...I imagine bringing a girl back to my place and As i slip in.. I just bust.. Im so nervous of that. And im like freaking out because I REALLY dont want that happening.

Asked and answered, above. Premature Ejaculation is a real condition that happens to real people in their teens, twenties, and beyond. It is a fact of life and a part of having sex. PE is also manageable when you learn how. It is also something that most girls are aware of, so do not be so paranoid about this happening. Expect that it will, and learn how to keep it from happening. There is an article on this topic, also that discusses methods for handling the problem.

PLEASE help, I would appreciate it very much

Please go thru the Index and read all of the articles; in fact, please read them more than once. Knowledge is empowering. As noted, I understand being anxious about all the things that might go wrong; however, you have to relax and realize that if and when something does not go quite as planned or expected, that this is OK. Making love is not what we do to each other; it is what we do with and for each other.

Explore and learn together and in partnership. Communication between the two of you is important.

After reading the articles in the Index, please do not hesitate to ask questions or get any clarification needed. I hope this is of help.