There is also a lot of lube involved lol, but maybe I am flinching away when it happens - either way it's annoying! I do think it's a mind thing, I try to concentrate on breathing but then get carried away and totally lose it!
I really want to be on top, but so far that's not happening as I can't get relaxed enough... eventually we switch to side or me on my front.
I think a vibe sounds good, we just got a new finger tingler
Also he just bought some Thai beads so we're going to experiment with those this weekend... fun fun fun, haha!!
So far he hasn't received any - he hasn't mentioned it yet, and I don't want to cut my nails off!! But you never know where these Thai beads will end up
Thanks for the advice x