[Brandye]

You are still in the learning phase. You have made the biggest step in learning how to please yourself. What has that taught you that you can pass on to your b/f or do yourself whilst he is available. Your orgasm is yours and you should not think in terms of anyone giving you one.

Remember that about a quarter of all women never experience orgasm and keep yourself orgasmic self in perspective. Just as you learned to do it yourself, you will learn how to get there with partner. Practice.

Pay no attention to the previous post. My experience has been that those men who talk about their prowess the most are the least likely to meet expectations. I, too, have been guaranteed (most women have) to my great disappointment.