i'm a relationship coach and i've been an escort for 5 years now. i can tell you this: the majority of my clients are married or in a relationship. they come to me primarily for great head. their partners either don't give it to them or their skills are mediocre.
a great deal of women are scared or grossed out by the idea of giving head because they know what else comes out of the man's pee pee hole! i was like that once too. women need instruction on how to overcome their fears or disgust and learn how to get to know their man's penis. once they do that, they can learn how to love it (no joke!), but also how to give an amazing blow job and the feeling of empowerment they can experience in doing so! (I offer this help in my ebook at
Blow Him Away|An Escort's Guide to How to Give Great Head - index)
with regards to great technique...i can't emphasize enough the foreplay that should take place BEFORE the actual blow job. if you're not setting the right tone or mood or ambience, you're not maximizing the ultimate blow job potential. my blow jobs take at LEAST 20 minutes, but usually longer, and a great deal of that has nothing to do with the cock! it's all about build up ladies...and letting him know how much you're loving what you're doing. take my word for it...hundreds and hundreds and repeat customers can't be wrong. : )
Alanna