"Excuse me but YES the difference between "friends" and "friends with benefits" is exactly SEX. That is precisely what benefits means. Otherwise they'd just be friends."
Ok...well I would consider that FWB would include sexual activity, and not just sexual intercourse. I know other people who would consider/have had fwb, but not had full intercourse. It is still sexual activity, so I think it crosses the boundary of "just friends" in some sense.
I realise that it may get frustrating for him to not "seal the deal" so to speak. That is why I originally posted this thread. So, I have an answer to some extent in that it could be doing that. But I feel a little as if I have been played to be the bad guy here lol. Just because We don't have sex, doesn't mean no pleasure! As evilevilkitten said, the difference between fwb and fuck buddies, is fwb are also friends; which we are also.
I feel maybe I should stop things then, as it seems to be causing a great deal of hassel to him in your opinion, if I dont take things further.
I guess i thought it was all about communication...as Vanella said. He does know I am a virgin. And he does know that atm, I do not want sex. He said himself he respects me for saving it. Last time I spoke to him, it was great that we were able to be really open bout the situation, an I think that that is important. He also knows there is another side of me that just can't resist lol.
Int1103 has a point, in that I will probably just be too turned on one day to say no thou...
So maybe that is more of a reason to stop.
Thanks for your comments again, I feel some to be a tad harsh, but i can see your point
And sorry for the lentgh
PS. I live in the UK so sex is leagal above 16
PPs glad to hear your last comment Vanella lol, u sound like a nice guy, hope, and think my fwb would do the same...think he would.