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Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten
Vanilla - stop being so...well..."vanilla" and THINK about this more thoroughly. If you dangle something desired in front of someone and say yes yes yes only to go no no no and take what is desired away (whether it is sex or chocolate cake or a job promotion) then you are a selfish, greedy prick/bitch.
Because you're breaking the ONE RULE : treat others as you would have them treat you.
To make it clear how important this is consider the latest findings from the social sciences - one of the five fundamental psychological patterns in the human brain FROM BIRTH is a "Sense of Fairness".
Play fair, people.
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Well it is her job to communicate to him that she doesnt want sex and just wants to be fwb. If he doesnt like that then its time to stop all together. Also I would never expect a girl to give up her virginity just because we had been fooling around...if she had had sex with a lot of other guys I guess that would be different as in I might expect it. Maybe guys should understand that if the girl doesnt want to have sex it means she doesnt want to have sex. If a girl told me that I wouldnt push the issue, depending on the situation I
may find another girl but I wouldnt push the issue. See I do treat others as I would want to be treated..I don't wanna anyone to push me or expect me to do anything that I'm not sure I wanna do.