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Actually it won't be all that great because this is a classic case of the blind leading the blind as both of you have no idea of what you're doing.
So, there are several questions that must be asked:
1. have you masturbated on your own to orgasm?
2. have you had a gyne exam?
3. have you both done your blood work?
4. were you ever exposed to abuse between the ages of 4 to 7?
There are important reasons for each question.
BTW there is no need to 'make it special' for him - it already is 'special' for him and he's most likely worrying himself to death over it "performance anxiety" being what it is. Find, read, and then do (the best you can) the sticky post entitled The Program. It works very very well and will help you both get off on the right foot.
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