[EvilEvilKitten]

Why NOT "just because you don't want to be a virgin." ???

Look, if you don't want to be ignorant, you get an education; if you don't want to be hungry, you get a meal; if you don't want to be poor, you get a job and go to work.

NOT wanting to be a virgin is a good enough reason to remedy the situation.

Everyone is special already because there is no one else exactly like them, each and every person, so if you're waiting, and waiting, and waiting for someone 'more special' - you're being deliberately blind.

But then, you're talking to a woman who quite literally threw her virginity away at the earliest opportunity and hasn't looked back once. Regret it?
HELL NO!

The point is that if you get out there with a suitable degree of ferocity and wisdom you can have a great time exploring. Ferocity so you scare off the despoilers of innocence (may 2little's despoiler rot in Hell). Wisdom so when you consult your gut about emotional decisions, you TRUST your gut and go with it. Learning when to say yes and when (and how) to say no is very important.

You don't learn how to do that sitting at home.