[Brandye]

I cannot imagine what she would accomplish by having you put on a condom part way through. Eaither disease transmission or pregnancy can be accomplished with a single insertion with or without ejaculation.

The most obvious recommendation is to use a female condom. They are a bit more expensive but the WHO has concluded that they are washable and reuseable. The package insert says they are single use. The male condom moves with the penis and this somewhat decreases sensitivity. The female condom does not move with the penis and feels more realistic for the man. When used for contraception, it is recommended that vaginal spermicide be used in the vagina AND in the female condom. They seem somewhat strange at first but when a couple gets accustomed, they are a good solution with about the same effectiveness as regaular condoms. Contraceptive jelly added makes them about as effective as the pill.