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INTERCOURSE / ORGASMS / and the gentle art of Humping
> Question is i find that most of my females partners are trying to be done faster than i want to be.
Hint #1: Help your partner to enjoy an orgasm first before you, and if it is her wish, after you(rs)
Hint #2: Keep stroking & thrusting to ~ten minutes or less; take one or more breaks returning to making out, then continue on
> I have had them ask me if I had cum yet, or thought they cant satesfy me.
Hint #3: Making love is not what we do to each other; it is what we do with and for each other. Communication is key! Feedback on how we are responding to his/her caresses is also important.
Please read the articles listed in the Index. Knowledge is empowering.
If your partner believes she is not or cannot satisfy you, ask yourself why? More than likely it is because she requires guidence. The same holds true for you with her in reverse. This is covered in detail, also.
Do the reading and then feel free to ask for additional information or clarification when necessary. We are here to help.
-doc