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ok everyone.
i feel bad that my thread has caused such a stir.
my husband had NOT had sex with me for 4 months. his excuss was that there was not enough foreplay. its not that i didn't try things for those 4 months. i did the sexy clothes, i had him come in to the bathroom while i was standing in the shower with a tight white tank top i mean it wasn't that i wasn't trying. (plus many other tries)
we talked about it, this time i think he understands. (but again i thought he understood all the other times we talked about it)
but we have been trying different things the past week, a few months back i told him i wanted to be more adventrous. he didn't like that idea.
but after we talked again he wanted the same thing but his was a different definition. like we wanted the same things but we both described it different. apprently neither of us would be great book writters. ha ha
i have tried to watch porn with him, but he didn't and doesn't like that idea.
things we have been doing this past week puts puddles in my panties just thinking about it. (sorry for the image)
but i am now getting the sex that i enjoy and he says that its what he has been looking for.
our marriage is important to me, i would never leave him over the porn things, but man it hurts. there will always be ups and downs in a marriage you just have to work your way up the hill again.
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