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Her reasons don't matter, dlb. When someone is as emotionally troubled by something as the OP is by this, the issue goes far beyond a single act, or a simple opinion thereof.
This girl's aversion to this goes right down to her fiber. It borders on gutteral. That doesn't get simply explained away, and one does not simply decide to do it anyway because it pleases someone else. When it's this strong, you don't just put it on a shelf--th'aint no shelf that will hold it.
Some day, if she meets the right guy, who goes about it in the right way, perhaps, just PERHAPS, she'll be able to get past it. If she chooses to, which she does not have to do. But EEK's right, it's nowhere near mandatory.
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