[dancingdoc2]

sex was intercourse with maybe a bit of foolin' around yet not so much because women were raised to believe that "sex" from A to Z was "dirty", disgusting, and for the express purpose of having a child.

Back in the really olden days, I can only imagine that farmers cherished the nights they tried to have another kid to eventually help out on the farm.

Up until the sexual revolution of the 1960s, women did not look forward to a night in the hay. Doing so was considered a wifely duty. So, you ask, where was the romance? Often it was plutonic.

Fast forward a few decades and now love is really in the air for both genders to enjoy and confirm thru makeout sessions and intercourse. Please read the articles listed in the Index that address the how-to's of love and romance--and what intercourse is all about. Intercourse is the outward expression of the love a couple professes for each other. Foreplay can often provide more intense orgasms; intercourse addresses the needs of the psyches and not so much the physical pleasures. The two are different yet go together hand-in-hand.

From your description of things, I do not believe you are anywhere near ready for intercourse. If you are a young to mid teen, your body has yet to fully mature, not to mention your mind and intellect. So, while you may be able to bear children, you are far from being ready. You have much more maturing to go thru and this is why the teen years are a decade long. Much happens to us after puberty that contiues the change from chilhood into adulthood. Puberty is just the first of many parts and in some ways is placing the cart before the horse in ways that prepare us to take on the world.

> im scared about the actual SEX! like is it at ALL glamorous as like movies? i have a feeling.. not!

Think again. Sex may not be "glamorous" although it is extremely satisfying to a person's physiology and psyche. My guess is that you have not yet learned to masturbate and achieve orgasms regularly and consistently. Is this true? If so, I strongly recommend you learn. There is a how-to article listed in the Index, and several on the female "O" that go along with it. Please read them whether you have learned or not. Knowledge is empowering.

Once you learn to masturbate your concern will be answered. Some small percentage of women never can climax or orgasm. Can or can't, the other part of your question about how satisfying love making is, will be answered in large measure when you mature a bit more and also find a boy/man with whom there are "sparks" and "chemestry" between you. When your respective pheromones are in the air between you, your emotions and ardor will both become stronger. Give yourself some time for all this to come together for you, if it has not yet done so for you.

Now, please begin reading the articles listed in the Index and then if you have questions, do not hesitate to ask. I hope this is of help.

-doc