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OxfordFox: Drop this Selfish Lout and kick him in the head on his way down.
"Well that's what a loving gf would do if her bf asked her to" or " why are you being so stupid about it i give you pleasure dont I why cant you do this one thing for me"
Frankly, a loving boyfriend would take her at her word and stop demanding what she doesn't like to give.
Next: stop appeasing men. Trying and trying and trying to like what they demand from you when you know beforehand that you do not like it is appeasement- giving him what he wants so he gets off your back about it. Appeasement is poison. Appeasement leads to resentment, shuts down communication within the relationship, and is a sure sign that this relationship is dead, dead, dead.
If you stay with this guy, you will be validating his behavior. He has already shown that he disrespects you and cannot be civil to you. He has shown himself to be selfish and ready to disregard your feelings. He is deluded enough to think pornography is real thus proving he has neither brain nor empathy. His pressuring you to do what you dislike/don't want is reason enough to get rid of him. Do it.
Time for a new and better lover!
Last edited by EvilEvilKitten; 09-26-2009 at 08:54 AM..
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