[EvilEvilKitten]

Puzzle - do not blame ALL guys for the faults of a FEW men. Just as not all women are the same, all men are not the same. It is not fair to judge all by the actions of one and at this age the guys are as confuzzled as you are. If you want someone with more experience, you're going to have to go illegal (18 and older).

Sexuality is everything including libido while orientation is strictly hetero, homo, or bi only.

Remember the guy who screwed you over? Try stepping back and looking at the situation OBJECTIVELY. Did you perhaps think it was love? Did you expect something? Could you have been mistaken in your perception? What did he think about it? You have to keep in mind that other people, including guys, may see things differently - same situation but different point of view.

In view of your limited experience you may want to hold off labeling yourself for a while yet.