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Originally Posted by oxfordfox
say things like "...what a loving gf would do..." or " why are you being so stupid about it..."
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His saying these things just plain isn't acceptable. Period.
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Originally Posted by oxfordfox
I dont know what it is I it just makes me feel degraded...
...how upset and disgusted I am at myself...
...it makes me feel like a whore
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But he has shown by his actions and his words that he quite obviously doesn't give a rat's rosy red one. The bottom line here is, she's got some issue about doing oral for him. And, given the voice of the original post, I highly doubt a 180 on that will come anytime remotely soon. We all know that when it comes to sex, everyone has something they love, and everyone has something they hate. Why in God's name should a person have to endure being treated the way he's treating her over it??? It does NOT make someone a lesser person.
In the beginning it took me a while to get my brain around the concept of putting a man's penis in my mouth. And guess what, that's okay. And guess what else, it's also okay if a person never does get their brain around it.
In the interest of full disclosure, and for the sake of sharing a giver's perspective, I do oral for T on a regular basis. He absolutely loves it, and I absolutely love doing it for him. Honestly, it's empowering for me, and I don't mean in terms of domination. I get a sense of pride from my ability to elicit those reactions from him. Sometimes it almost slips out of my mouth from the grin that spreads across my face. It's almost a 'Hell yeah, look what I can do! Putty in my hands!' kind of thing. Maybe that's dorky but that's okay. I'm proudly the biggest dork I know. It's part of my charm
