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Pic, you make a good point about the general concept of compromise in a relationship. Having said that, however....

Look at the pain this girl is in over giving him oral. With something as emotional as this is for her, I'm not sure I think a compromise can, or should, be reached. No one should be forced or cajoled into doing something that makes them feel the way giving oral so obviously makes her feel.

Yes, relationships are about compromise. But sex is about pleasure and bonding. If a person enjoys feeling dominated, dirty or demeaned, more power to them!! But no one should have to perform an act that makes them want to curl up into a ball and sob because they feel like such an inferior human being. That's cruel.

Oxford: PLEASE don't interpret the previous paragraph as anything negative directed at you....that's utterly NOT what I mean, and I don't believe it to be true. It just sounds to me like it's how you feel afterward.