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Although orgasm and ejaculation in men CAN become separate events, this is neither common nor easy to achieve. Only a man who is well-trained in Tantra can hope to get to the point of having a climax without ejaculating at the same time. The spiritual and physical demands of Tantra can, over time, enable a man to have an orgasm and not ejaculate, which in addition also enables the guy to have many orgasms one after another (like a woman can) and to experience them all over his body and not just locally in the genitals. You will not find very many men who have fully achieved this. I have been practicing meditation, yoga and yogic breathing routines daily for over 35 years now, and learned the basics of tantric control 6 or 8 years ago. I finally reached the level of control and awareness necessary to have non-ejaculatory orgasms only a couple of years ago, at the age of 55. And, by the way, this is WAY more than merely a sexual thing, it's a level of yogic evolution, a step toward enlightenment, a major milestone in one's spiritual progress...
Michael
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