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Ahem.... threesomes are wonderful - for those who understand that this is just PLAY and therefore nothing very serious.
Now then, women have body issues but I can tell you that the majority of men are much LESS concerned with your body than you are. For most men, female, same species, breathing is sufficient. Yes, that is a simplification but you get my drift. Quit worrying about your physique in this situation.
Because what's going on between your ears is far more important. Unless your mindset is "into" this, nothing's going to go well at all. First, sex does not equal love so forget about any emotional ties with this additional male beyond lust. Second, jealousy will kill both the threesome and your marriage if it rears its ugly head - so rid yourselves of any jealousy. Third, hunt together. This last is very easy especially if you contact and hang out with your local Swing/Lifestyle group. There are always 'pre-approved males' associated with such groups. They will be experienced and will know the rules of the game.
The operational sequence is for you and your husband to begin sexual play and then for the second man to join in gently where he can - this will usually be with additional caresses and will then move onto actual sexual acts.
If at any time you feel unhappy about anything - you can call the whole thing off. It is not necessary for you to justify your decision to stop, continue or whatever for in this area of life - the woman rules.
Let me know if you have any further questions.
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