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Are you uncertain about or afraid of how you will come across by your partner if you do take charge? If so, history has shown that when a woman initiates a romantic encounter, men get a big thrill out of it and this is a turn on for us.
I believe the operative term is "take charge", rather than being "dominant". In the beginning and until you have some success and acquire some comfort with your actions, begin by just starting to kiss, hug, and snuggle. Be the one to use your "romin'" hands and "rushin'" fingers. Beat your partner to the punch so to speak.
If you are a woman, go change into a fancy neglige, then quietly walk up to a door and strike a provocative pose. Once you have your partner's attention, take it from there. Go sit beside him/her, or invite them into the bedroom and then give instructions on where you want them to sit or lie. From here on, just let your imagination run and do what seems appropriate.
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