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It might have a lot to do with the other relationship. I know I wouldn't want to eat home cooking if I could eat at a restaurant whenever I wanted. I use that example because I am only with my wife, but it is a good parallel. I'm not judging, it's just human nature. The longer we go between "sessions" the more I'm drawn to my wife. She'll go from attractive to irresistable to me. If I had a second partner to fill the void I'm pretty sure our sex life would cool proportionally. If you take a break from all sexual contact for a bit (boyfriend and yourself) you may find your husband will begin to look a lot more like a sexual object and not just your best friend. Just a thought, hope it helps.
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