Ire, welcome to the SI101 Board and its Forums. I hope you enjoy participating. Please begin by familiarizing yourself with the FAQs, the Posting Guidelines section, and especially the Index, all found at the top of the main screen. The Index contains links to helpful informative insightful, as well as how-to articles that discuss the most common questions and concerns people write in about. In addition, go to the site's Home page for even more information.
Here is a link to
an article on hand and oral stimulation.
Now, the how-to of Foreplay (oral and manual stimulation) is only one part of the picture. More to the point is in how you make out before this. For information on fooling around and making out before ever getting to Foreplay, consider learning how to become a better lover when it comes to making out. There are several articles listed in the Index on all this. They discuss not only the how-to of all this, they also discuss the various stages and how to go from one to the other.
I hope this is of help. Got questions?