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I read it properly. The ex boyfriend is now a friend and how many times have you guys said "once you're in the friend zone you don't get laid'? So what is he bitching about - nothing. It remains HIS problem, not hers.
Because men who are men want to win her in a fair fight. If she knows he only won because she crippled his opposition how does that make her feel about him? Instead of being her hero, he becomes her child.
She's hoping he'll grow up. Whether he knows it or not, she's becoming bored with his "I don't like it" whining. She will move on soon enough. Then his probem will solve itself.
The EvilKitty's husband goes off to see his ex-girlfriends from high school. He tells me he's going to go have lunch with so-and-so and I try hard to recall who that is and tell him to have a good time and to drive safely.
Finally the ONLY thing that really matters in ANY relationship is what is going on between you and your partner. No one else matters. Stop worrying and wasting your efforts. FOCUS upon your partner and all will be well.
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